DON’T Lie or Betray Women
If you are ever caught in a lie you might as well say goodbye to the woman that catches you. Women consider trust a major factor in a healthy relationship. If she catches you betraying her trust, she will assume that everything you have ever said is a lie, and she will no longer believe anything you say. In order to cover your bases, for example, if you are seeing more than one woman be sure you don’t commit to one woman. Be honest with her, and she may even agree with your behavior! Women want respect. When you respect a woman, she’ll give it in return.
If a woman starts to badger you about your behavior, don’t answer her questions if you are going to have to lie to her. Simply tell her that she is out of line. You aren’t obligated to tell a woman everything, especially if you are still in the dating stage of a relationship. She must also respect you and show consideration for your privacy.
DON’T Talk About Other Women
We have all done this. You are out with a woman, and the conversation turns to your prior relationships. You should be careful to avoid in depth conversations about other women for a couple of reasons. First, by discussing your past relationships, and perhaps analyzing them, you put this new woman in the category of therapist - a.k.a. friend. She won’t feel any sexual chemistry for you if you are telling her what went wrong with your ex-girlfriend. She may see your need to talk as an indication of emotional baggage. You DO NOT want a woman to assume you have baggage.
Second, you don’t want to discuss other women you’re your date because this may make her feel uncomfortable. If you are talking about ex-girlfriends then it means you are still thinking about them. A woman wants to feel that you are thinking about her, especially while on a date. She wants to know that you like her, and you want to spend time learning about her. So ask her questions about Her! Get to know her. Don’t ask about her past, and she will be less likely to ask about yours.
Third, you do not want to be discussing other women with your new date if you are seeing more than one woman. This can be a touchy subject for some women, so it is best left alone. If it comes up in conversation, simply brush it off as casual dating. Try to avoid that discussion in the early dating stages with a new woman. You want to increase your chances of getting this woman into bed, not lose out because of your big mouth.
DON’T Forget to Shave
This is a big issue for women. The stubble might not bother you, but it definitely bothers women! If you intend to kiss a woman, on the lips or otherwise, you must be clean-shaven. Either that, or have your facial hair grown out past the prickly stage. It can irritate a woman’s skin, and she won’t look forward to kissing you in the near future. This, of course, is not what you want. Be sure to keep your facial hair groomed and stubble-free.
If you are ever caught in a lie you might as well say goodbye to the woman that catches you. Women consider trust a major factor in a healthy relationship. If she catches you betraying her trust, she will assume that everything you have ever said is a lie, and she will no longer believe anything you say. In order to cover your bases, for example, if you are seeing more than one woman be sure you don’t commit to one woman. Be honest with her, and she may even agree with your behavior! Women want respect. When you respect a woman, she’ll give it in return.
If a woman starts to badger you about your behavior, don’t answer her questions if you are going to have to lie to her. Simply tell her that she is out of line. You aren’t obligated to tell a woman everything, especially if you are still in the dating stage of a relationship. She must also respect you and show consideration for your privacy.
DON’T Talk About Other Women
We have all done this. You are out with a woman, and the conversation turns to your prior relationships. You should be careful to avoid in depth conversations about other women for a couple of reasons. First, by discussing your past relationships, and perhaps analyzing them, you put this new woman in the category of therapist - a.k.a. friend. She won’t feel any sexual chemistry for you if you are telling her what went wrong with your ex-girlfriend. She may see your need to talk as an indication of emotional baggage. You DO NOT want a woman to assume you have baggage.
Second, you don’t want to discuss other women you’re your date because this may make her feel uncomfortable. If you are talking about ex-girlfriends then it means you are still thinking about them. A woman wants to feel that you are thinking about her, especially while on a date. She wants to know that you like her, and you want to spend time learning about her. So ask her questions about Her! Get to know her. Don’t ask about her past, and she will be less likely to ask about yours.
Third, you do not want to be discussing other women with your new date if you are seeing more than one woman. This can be a touchy subject for some women, so it is best left alone. If it comes up in conversation, simply brush it off as casual dating. Try to avoid that discussion in the early dating stages with a new woman. You want to increase your chances of getting this woman into bed, not lose out because of your big mouth.
DON’T Forget to Shave
This is a big issue for women. The stubble might not bother you, but it definitely bothers women! If you intend to kiss a woman, on the lips or otherwise, you must be clean-shaven. Either that, or have your facial hair grown out past the prickly stage. It can irritate a woman’s skin, and she won’t look forward to kissing you in the near future. This, of course, is not what you want. Be sure to keep your facial hair groomed and stubble-free.
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