Reading Her Body Language
When reading a woman’s body language, be sure to consider all body movements, facial expressions and even her verbal communication to other people. Women are not very good at hiding their feelings. Their feelings are expressed obviously, provided you can read what her body language is saying. Women always convey what they are feeling through a series of gestures. You need to be able to recognize these gestures and interpret them to find out her thoughts, feelings, or motives. There are two key forms of body positioning – open and closed. Open describes a woman who is open to advancement. She will respond positively if you approach her. Closed, on the other hand, indicates that the woman is on the defensive.
She is withdrawing from the situation; she may be unhappy; she may be tired and wants to go home. Women with closed body language should probably be avoided, unless you want a challenge.
Body Position – Standing
When a woman is standing, and she is open to advancement, she will often stand with her legs slightly apart. Her arms could be by her side, on her hips, or one hand will be holding a drink. She will be relaxed and her movements will flow smoothly. These are all good indications of openness to advancement. A woman who is approachable will usually keep her hands showing – indicating she has nothing to hide. A receptive woman will not have her hands in her pockets, or her arms crossed. If a woman is standing with her arms crossed she is demonstrating a closed body position. She is feeling defensive and her arms pose as a physical barrier to anyone approaching.
Body Position – Sitting
When a woman is sitting with just her legs crossed, and her arms resting on her lap, or on the arm rests, she is expressing an open body position. She may have crossed her legs to be sexy – to show off more of her thigh and to express invitation. If she is holding her knee and leaning forward, she is showing interest. If she turns her body towards the person beside her, she is definitely showing interest in that person.
When a woman is seated with her legs crossed AND her arms crossed – walk away. She is not in a receptive body position. Wait until she relaxes. Otherwise, she will probably be a very difficult woman to open up. Another defensive position is when she tightly holds her hands on her lap, and her ankles are crossed.
Obvious Flirting Behavior
Even if you aren’t very good at reading body positions, you can’t go wrong if you notice some or all of the following behavior:
She may tilt her head to one side, or looks at you then looks down, which indicates submission;
She may run her fingers through her hair;
She may straighten her clothing or adjust in her seat;
She may touch her face, neck, or rub her hand on her own leg.
All these gestures indicate a desire to look attractive. Women are always showing men signs of interest, but so many men just don’t know how to read them! You need to observe women and, using this book as a guide, learn to interpret their body positions and gestures. When a woman shows signs of interest you need to be confident with your approach, and that she will accept your advances, and move toward her.
If you are more interested in learning how to interpret a woman’s body language there are numerous books written on just that. It is an extensive subject – one worth reading up on! The more you know about how women convey their feelings, the better you can communicate with them.
Physical Contact
If you are like every man I know, you want to become physical with the woman you are advancing upon. You must not move too quickly, though. The woman will show signs of interest, you will start a conversation, and then you can inadvertently touch her. A soft, subtle touch can make a woman feel at ease with you. You will reassure her that you are a nice, gentle person.
The best way to initiate physical contact with a woman is to "accidentally" touch her. Any indirect contact will do – if you are standing, stand close so your arms touch, or if you are sitting, sit close enough so that your legs touch. If she allows or returns the contact, then you are okay to continue. Once you establish your first physical contact you should continue to touch her. It lets her know that you are definitely interested, and you don’t want her to get away.
Often, men lose out with women because they DON’T touch her enough. Men often hesitate touching too much for fear of scaring her away, but women think that he is not totally interested in her. This is a simple miscommunication that you can easily avoid. Touch her. If she pulls away then you should give her some more time to get comfortable with you. You don’t want to come on too strong, or you might offend her.
Take the initiative to be close, but let the woman dictate how much, how fast.
If you feel that the chemistry between you is building quickly and you feel the desire to kiss her, look deep into her eyes. Stand close enough so that you can touch her cheek, and pull yourself against her. Wait to see her reaction. If she pulls away then she is not ready to be kissed. If she returns the closeness and doesn’t pull or turn away, kiss her softly. Make sure you don’t give her a wet, sloppy kiss. Women hate that! If a woman wants to be kissed, she will position herself in front of you. Knowing just when to initiate physical contact, or when to kiss her, takes practice. You can practice touching people inadvertently throughout the day, but the best practice will be with women.
Ensure Success Tonight
Now that you know about women’s behavior and body language, you need to know how to find the woman who is looking for the same thing you are – to meet someone tonight. This woman will be looking hot and desirable.
Typically, she will wear clothes that show off her female form. She may draw attention to her breasts or legs. She may wear a tight skirt or top to show off her feminine curves. This woman wants to look her best so that she will attract male attention. She knows that she looks hot, and she has probably only one thing on her mind – to find a sexual partner. A woman looking to meet a man will express open body language, and she will be watching every man in the room. She is looking to choose the lucky guy who gets to take her home tonight. Despite her outspoken body language, you should always follow the points in this chapter – make eye contact and flirt with her before approaching her. Instead of looking deep into her eyes, you could play with her a little and undress her with your eyes. A woman with the goal of a one-night stand will appreciate this gesture, and the chemistry will spark! This woman is sending out obvious signals of interest. Now that you know even the slightest body suggestions you can pick up on her obvious desires. You can be the lucky guy who attracts her attention using your own body language and takes her home!
When reading a woman’s body language, be sure to consider all body movements, facial expressions and even her verbal communication to other people. Women are not very good at hiding their feelings. Their feelings are expressed obviously, provided you can read what her body language is saying. Women always convey what they are feeling through a series of gestures. You need to be able to recognize these gestures and interpret them to find out her thoughts, feelings, or motives. There are two key forms of body positioning – open and closed. Open describes a woman who is open to advancement. She will respond positively if you approach her. Closed, on the other hand, indicates that the woman is on the defensive.
She is withdrawing from the situation; she may be unhappy; she may be tired and wants to go home. Women with closed body language should probably be avoided, unless you want a challenge.
Body Position – Standing
When a woman is standing, and she is open to advancement, she will often stand with her legs slightly apart. Her arms could be by her side, on her hips, or one hand will be holding a drink. She will be relaxed and her movements will flow smoothly. These are all good indications of openness to advancement. A woman who is approachable will usually keep her hands showing – indicating she has nothing to hide. A receptive woman will not have her hands in her pockets, or her arms crossed. If a woman is standing with her arms crossed she is demonstrating a closed body position. She is feeling defensive and her arms pose as a physical barrier to anyone approaching.
Body Position – Sitting
When a woman is sitting with just her legs crossed, and her arms resting on her lap, or on the arm rests, she is expressing an open body position. She may have crossed her legs to be sexy – to show off more of her thigh and to express invitation. If she is holding her knee and leaning forward, she is showing interest. If she turns her body towards the person beside her, she is definitely showing interest in that person.
When a woman is seated with her legs crossed AND her arms crossed – walk away. She is not in a receptive body position. Wait until she relaxes. Otherwise, she will probably be a very difficult woman to open up. Another defensive position is when she tightly holds her hands on her lap, and her ankles are crossed.
Obvious Flirting Behavior
Even if you aren’t very good at reading body positions, you can’t go wrong if you notice some or all of the following behavior:
She may tilt her head to one side, or looks at you then looks down, which indicates submission;
She may run her fingers through her hair;
She may straighten her clothing or adjust in her seat;
She may touch her face, neck, or rub her hand on her own leg.
All these gestures indicate a desire to look attractive. Women are always showing men signs of interest, but so many men just don’t know how to read them! You need to observe women and, using this book as a guide, learn to interpret their body positions and gestures. When a woman shows signs of interest you need to be confident with your approach, and that she will accept your advances, and move toward her.
If you are more interested in learning how to interpret a woman’s body language there are numerous books written on just that. It is an extensive subject – one worth reading up on! The more you know about how women convey their feelings, the better you can communicate with them.
Physical Contact
If you are like every man I know, you want to become physical with the woman you are advancing upon. You must not move too quickly, though. The woman will show signs of interest, you will start a conversation, and then you can inadvertently touch her. A soft, subtle touch can make a woman feel at ease with you. You will reassure her that you are a nice, gentle person.
The best way to initiate physical contact with a woman is to "accidentally" touch her. Any indirect contact will do – if you are standing, stand close so your arms touch, or if you are sitting, sit close enough so that your legs touch. If she allows or returns the contact, then you are okay to continue. Once you establish your first physical contact you should continue to touch her. It lets her know that you are definitely interested, and you don’t want her to get away.
Often, men lose out with women because they DON’T touch her enough. Men often hesitate touching too much for fear of scaring her away, but women think that he is not totally interested in her. This is a simple miscommunication that you can easily avoid. Touch her. If she pulls away then you should give her some more time to get comfortable with you. You don’t want to come on too strong, or you might offend her.
Take the initiative to be close, but let the woman dictate how much, how fast.
If you feel that the chemistry between you is building quickly and you feel the desire to kiss her, look deep into her eyes. Stand close enough so that you can touch her cheek, and pull yourself against her. Wait to see her reaction. If she pulls away then she is not ready to be kissed. If she returns the closeness and doesn’t pull or turn away, kiss her softly. Make sure you don’t give her a wet, sloppy kiss. Women hate that! If a woman wants to be kissed, she will position herself in front of you. Knowing just when to initiate physical contact, or when to kiss her, takes practice. You can practice touching people inadvertently throughout the day, but the best practice will be with women.
Ensure Success Tonight
Now that you know about women’s behavior and body language, you need to know how to find the woman who is looking for the same thing you are – to meet someone tonight. This woman will be looking hot and desirable.
Typically, she will wear clothes that show off her female form. She may draw attention to her breasts or legs. She may wear a tight skirt or top to show off her feminine curves. This woman wants to look her best so that she will attract male attention. She knows that she looks hot, and she has probably only one thing on her mind – to find a sexual partner. A woman looking to meet a man will express open body language, and she will be watching every man in the room. She is looking to choose the lucky guy who gets to take her home tonight. Despite her outspoken body language, you should always follow the points in this chapter – make eye contact and flirt with her before approaching her. Instead of looking deep into her eyes, you could play with her a little and undress her with your eyes. A woman with the goal of a one-night stand will appreciate this gesture, and the chemistry will spark! This woman is sending out obvious signals of interest. Now that you know even the slightest body suggestions you can pick up on her obvious desires. You can be the lucky guy who attracts her attention using your own body language and takes her home!
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