Bars and Night Clubs
Bars and clubs are a great place to meet women and to practice your Shotgun approach. There are always single women making themselves available by going to singles bars and nightclubs.
If you want to be successful picking up women in bars, you should try going to those that aren’t too noisy to talk. Some bars have live bands that can play extremely loud. This creates the need to yell back and forth, thus taking away from the seductive behavior. You need to be able to carry a conversation with a woman if you expect to pick her up or get her phone number.
Another factor that contributes to a comfortable atmosphere is lighting. You don’t want a bar to be too dim. Again, you want to see what you’re getting. Try to find a club that has a little brighter room. Also, try to find a club that has a cozy area with couches or tables where you could suggest having a drink with a woman. If the lighting is adequate, you will see her well enough to decide if she is worth your while, and if the music isn’t too loud, you will be able to have a conversation with her. Already, without any commitment, you know if you’ll like her or not.
Coffee Shops
Believe it or not, coffee shops are prime locations to hook up with a woman. The caffeine has a big part in this, as it triggers the pleasure center of the brain by releasing a substance in the body called phenyl ethylamine. The coffee creates a body rush - her breathing will quicken, as will her heart rate - and she’ll be more receptive to your advances than if you had met her elsewhere. Women in coffee shops tend to be more open to meeting.
Coffee shops are also a great place to meet women because it often means you live in the same neighborhood, therefore there is a greater chance of bumping into her more than once. Coffee shops are a casual environment, and it is easy to approach a woman. You simply ask her if you can sit on the stool beside her at the coffee bar, or offer to share a table with her. Often, women are in coffee shops to take a break from her hurried day and good conversation can be a welcome advance.
Grocery Stores & Laundromats
Ah, the necessities of life. Every woman must buy food. This reason alone is bound to attract your attention - If every woman is, at some time, walking the isles of a grocery store then you have a chance to meet her. The next time you are shopping for food and you see an attractive woman, simply push your cart up beside hers and smile at her. Then say something charming to break the ice and start a conversation.
Laundry is another required chore that we all must carry out. Laundromats can be very casual environments to meet women. Most people spend about an hour and a half doing their laundry, which gives plenty of time to spark up conversation. It can be much easier to approach a woman when she is relaxed and just being herself. If you decide to approach a woman in the Laundromat, be sure not to approach her while she is folding her personal clothing, though. Most women will feel uncomfortable if you do this. If you do meet a great woman in the Laundromat and you don’t get her number, at least be sure to ask her about her regular laundry days, then perhaps plan to meet again "same place, same time." As with coffee shops, meeting at a Laundromat indicates that you live nearby to her.
Break Your Routine!
You heard me! Break your routine. Take a different route to work, walk to the corner store instead of drive, have coffee at a new café, take walks at lunchtime. Changing your routine will expose you to new people and new places and will increase your chances to meet and date new women.
A great way to expose your self to new people is to try new things, or go to new places. Create an adventure for your self, and get involved in something you haven’t tried, or haven’t done in years. Take at least one day this week and try something new! I have brainstormed a list of places to go and activities you could try - not only to meet women, but to enhance your life as well.
Tennis Courts Art Shows The Beach
Health Clubs Concerts The Park
Sporting Events Museums Cafeteria
Department Stores The Zoo Jogging
Amusement Parks Boat Shows Restaurants
Health Fairs Car Shows On the Street
Church Career Fairs Video Store
Local Markets Book Signings In an Elevator
Sports Bars Club meetings Parades
Garage Sales Political Events Bus Stops
Book Store Magazine Shop Airport
Remember: Anytime! Anywhere!
It doesn’t matter where you are, or what you are doing, you should always be ready to go into action. The more practiced you are at approaching and meeting women, the more confident you become with your techniques. This ultimately leads to a higher success rate with women! Remember, that you don’t have to call every number you get – it’s the process of actually getting her number that is important. Just keep practicing! Don’t get discouraged if you get shut down - consider it her loss. Once you become an expert, you will have no trouble getting the woman of your dreams!
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Bars and clubs are a great place to meet women and to practice your Shotgun approach. There are always single women making themselves available by going to singles bars and nightclubs.
If you want to be successful picking up women in bars, you should try going to those that aren’t too noisy to talk. Some bars have live bands that can play extremely loud. This creates the need to yell back and forth, thus taking away from the seductive behavior. You need to be able to carry a conversation with a woman if you expect to pick her up or get her phone number.
Another factor that contributes to a comfortable atmosphere is lighting. You don’t want a bar to be too dim. Again, you want to see what you’re getting. Try to find a club that has a little brighter room. Also, try to find a club that has a cozy area with couches or tables where you could suggest having a drink with a woman. If the lighting is adequate, you will see her well enough to decide if she is worth your while, and if the music isn’t too loud, you will be able to have a conversation with her. Already, without any commitment, you know if you’ll like her or not.
Coffee Shops
Believe it or not, coffee shops are prime locations to hook up with a woman. The caffeine has a big part in this, as it triggers the pleasure center of the brain by releasing a substance in the body called phenyl ethylamine. The coffee creates a body rush - her breathing will quicken, as will her heart rate - and she’ll be more receptive to your advances than if you had met her elsewhere. Women in coffee shops tend to be more open to meeting.
Coffee shops are also a great place to meet women because it often means you live in the same neighborhood, therefore there is a greater chance of bumping into her more than once. Coffee shops are a casual environment, and it is easy to approach a woman. You simply ask her if you can sit on the stool beside her at the coffee bar, or offer to share a table with her. Often, women are in coffee shops to take a break from her hurried day and good conversation can be a welcome advance.
Grocery Stores & Laundromats
Ah, the necessities of life. Every woman must buy food. This reason alone is bound to attract your attention - If every woman is, at some time, walking the isles of a grocery store then you have a chance to meet her. The next time you are shopping for food and you see an attractive woman, simply push your cart up beside hers and smile at her. Then say something charming to break the ice and start a conversation.
Laundry is another required chore that we all must carry out. Laundromats can be very casual environments to meet women. Most people spend about an hour and a half doing their laundry, which gives plenty of time to spark up conversation. It can be much easier to approach a woman when she is relaxed and just being herself. If you decide to approach a woman in the Laundromat, be sure not to approach her while she is folding her personal clothing, though. Most women will feel uncomfortable if you do this. If you do meet a great woman in the Laundromat and you don’t get her number, at least be sure to ask her about her regular laundry days, then perhaps plan to meet again "same place, same time." As with coffee shops, meeting at a Laundromat indicates that you live nearby to her.
Break Your Routine!
You heard me! Break your routine. Take a different route to work, walk to the corner store instead of drive, have coffee at a new café, take walks at lunchtime. Changing your routine will expose you to new people and new places and will increase your chances to meet and date new women.
A great way to expose your self to new people is to try new things, or go to new places. Create an adventure for your self, and get involved in something you haven’t tried, or haven’t done in years. Take at least one day this week and try something new! I have brainstormed a list of places to go and activities you could try - not only to meet women, but to enhance your life as well.
Tennis Courts Art Shows The Beach
Health Clubs Concerts The Park
Sporting Events Museums Cafeteria
Department Stores The Zoo Jogging
Amusement Parks Boat Shows Restaurants
Health Fairs Car Shows On the Street
Church Career Fairs Video Store
Local Markets Book Signings In an Elevator
Sports Bars Club meetings Parades
Garage Sales Political Events Bus Stops
Book Store Magazine Shop Airport
Remember: Anytime! Anywhere!
It doesn’t matter where you are, or what you are doing, you should always be ready to go into action. The more practiced you are at approaching and meeting women, the more confident you become with your techniques. This ultimately leads to a higher success rate with women! Remember, that you don’t have to call every number you get – it’s the process of actually getting her number that is important. Just keep practicing! Don’t get discouraged if you get shut down - consider it her loss. Once you become an expert, you will have no trouble getting the woman of your dreams!
Click Here For Part 3
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