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How To Use Power And Suggestion Of Body Language - 1


How To Use Power And Suggestion Of Body Language

The man with the greatest chance for success with a woman is a man who can attract her, approach her, and seduce her by using both verbal and non-verbal language. This chapter is all about body language – yours and hers. You need to know how your body language influences her reactions and opinions toward you. You need to know how to get the results you want by telling her what you want before you approach her. You’ll learn what impression you can give her and how you can convey your intentions to her by using simple gestures.

You’ll also learn how to pick out the women that will be the most responsive to your efforts. You want to minimize your chances of rejection. In this chapter you will find out how to spot the women that want to be picked up and those tat want to be left alone. You will learn how to use body language to communicate with women. You will soon learn how to read a woman’s movements and reactions to determine what she’s
thinking and how she feels.

Body language is the most powerful and effective communication tool when meeting women. You must become fully aware of body language and use it to your advantage. Once you read through this chapter your chance for success will increase as you begin to see the clues women give you through their body language. Using this valuable information, your time and effort will no longer be wasted on women who cannot or will not give you what you desire.

Use Your Body Language Effectively

This is called Flirting. Flirting is extremely important when communicating with women that you intend to pick up. Everyone can flirt, but not all can flirt successfully. You will soon be able to flirt with women and achieve great results! This chapter is full of suggestions for Effective flirting.

To become an expert at flirting you need practice, practice and more practice.

There are many women out there eager to flirt with men. You may not see Yourself with all of them, but you should still use them to practice your techniques! Practice making women smile; practice talking to women; practice being funny and charming; practice new lines; practice asking for her phone number. You should especially practice reading women – approach them to compare their reactions to what you expected. Every time you are right about a woman’s thoughts you will become more of an expert at reading women. You will become more confident and, when it comes time to flirt with a woman you really want to date or sleep with, you’ll be ready.

Personal Space

You have to set the stage for exchanging body language with a woman. The best way to do this is it to position yourself within reasonable proximity to her. Once you see a woman you are interested in you should turn to face her. Make sure that you are in her line of vision, so that you can easily exchange glances. You want her to see you. As soon as she sees you, start flirting with her.

Women, too, use their personal space to flirt with you. If a woman is particularly close to you – less than an arm’s length away – then she is probably interested in you. Always assume she is interested, at which point begin flirting with her. A woman will likely position herself near you if she is interested.

When a woman sees a man she wants to meet, she will find a way to be physically closer to him.

Have you ever noticed a woman who keeps appearing in your general vicinity? No coincidence. Women have their own ways of getting closer to men. She may slowly move closer to you; she may approach the bar at the same time hoping to talk to you; she may "accidentally" bump into you; she may touch your arm or your waist to make her way past you in a busy nightclub; she may even brush her breasts up against you. This behavior is sending the message that she wants to meet you.

Women almost always will tour the room and pass by any man she is interested in more than once. She will look at you and look away – then look again to see if you are still looking. This is a telltale sign that she is interested. Men often don’t notice such subtle gestures. Keep reading to learn more about her body language.

Every time you walk into a room, you should notice women, and where they are. Keep your eyes open to see who is checking you out, and watch which women move closer to you. These are the women that are interested in you, and they will be more likely to accept your advances.
Make Eye Contact

If you see a woman you are interested in, the first thing you do is become visible to her, then you want to make eye contact. Look into her eyes. Eye contact, especially the first glance, can say a lot about your feelings for a woman. Women can sense your intentions when she looks into your eyes. Women are very good at reading a person’s eyes, so it is important to be genuine. Allow her to see the real you; you’ll be more attractive if you are being yourself. Be sure to look right into her eyes. Don’t look her up and down like a piece of meat you just want to have sex with; look at her. If you create chemistry (as discussed later in Chapter 11) she will feel the connection right away.

Always try to make eye contact with any woman you are interested in.

Show her that you are serious about wanting to meet her and talk to her. If you catch her eyes across the room, hold your gaze until she looks away. You should never be the one to look away, and never look down. Looking down is a sign of submission – that is what you want her to do! If you look away you send messages of fear, or lack of interest. You want her to know you are strong, confident and assertive. Hold eye contact with her for an extended gaze. If she refuses to look away, give her a little wink and a smile. When you are holding eye contact with a woman, and you feel the tension building, don’t break down and look away. Force yourself to keep looking deep into her eyes. By maintaining your gaze you are creating sexual chemistry! Once the woman looks away then you should also look away. Frequently scan her line of vision to see if she is looking back at you, and see if she will make direct eye contact with you again. If a woman is interested in you, she will let you know.

Extended eye contact is a good indication that she wants to meet you.

If she continues to look right at you, then you know she is interested. She is inviting you over with her eyes. A woman with such confidence is one to be extra secure around. She knows what she wants, and tonight she wants you.

When you decide to approach a woman you want her to see you as a self-assured man whom she could easily be with. Walk right up to her without looking away. To engage a conversation, you should politely introduce yourself and flatter her with a sincere compliment. She will surely smile in response, or say thank you, and then you ask her name and make conversation. You will learn just what to say in Chapter 8 How to Talk With Women. Once you know her name, be sure to use it often so as not to forget it.

Smile

A great smile will tell a woman a lot about you: you are sociable, you are friendly, and you are happy. Smiling is easy and effective with women. It will put a woman at ease, and she won’t feel threatened by you. When you smile at a woman you are sending her the message that you have noticed her and she should know that you are interested in her. If a woman smiles at you, she is sending that same message.

Always return a woman’s smile – it tells her you are friendly, easy-going and approachable. When you make eye contact with a woman, you must follow it up with a smile. If you don’t, she may see you as angry, stupid, or a jerk! You might be trying to "keep your cool" by maintaining a straight face, but women don’t want that – a woman wants a friendly, approachable guy to smile at her and to give her a sign of approval.

Smile at a woman to tell her you are interested.

Smiling at her and making eye contact with her will tell a woman you are attracted to her. If a woman returns both gestures – eye contact and smiling – you know you made an impression. You will have a pretty good chance for success as she has already given you the approval to approach her.

It is important to smile to women, and it is just as important to smile while interacting with friends and strangers. If a woman is watching you, and sees your positive manner, she’ll see you as a guy who knows how to have a great time. A woman will notice you laughing and enjoying yourself.

She will see you as a guy who would be fun to go out and spend time with. If you don’t have a confident smile, practice every day in front of the mirror, or just smile at all the people you make contact with through out the day. You will quickly feel great about your smile, and the reactions you get from being friendly.
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